Objectively Establishing Charm

Question: How do I become a charming person?

Answer: That depends on how you wish to define "Charm".

Question: I feel that most would answer me with a subjective judgement, meaning that everyone has their own definition. Is there a definition of "Charm" that applies to everyone: an objective and universal answer to what "Charm" is?

Answer: Yes

Question: How would you define it then?

Answer: Charm, according to the Webster's 1828 Dictionary is defined as 

"CHARM, noun

2. That which has power to subdue opposition, and gain the affections; that which can please irresistible; that which delights and attracts the heart; generally in the plural."

Question: What is to be drawn from the definition?

Answer: That to be charming is to be delightsome and pleasing.

Question: How do I establish a charming, delightsome, and pleasing character?

Answer: Become enjoyable to the senses, animate the spirits, and exhilarate to the minds of the people you associate with. 

Question: And to do this?

Answer: Now that charm is established, it becomes easy to study the minutia.

Question: Can I then, discover these elements easily?

Answer: Yes, improving your looks, your spirit, wit, intellect, sociability, and other qualities are easy to find and research and will help becoming a charming person.